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Wednesday, July 18, 2007

July 18 A Good Samaritan Story

July 17 and 19 hold significance for me. One is my first love's birthday the other is the anniversary of a tornado I was in in 1978. Unfortunately I get the two dates confused and I can't remember which is which. So today I will split it down the middle and tell a story about a whirlwind visitor we had on one of those dates when I was 12 years old.

Daddy, my adorable toddler-niece Mindi whom I was babysitting, and I were the only ones home. The clouds were ominous and growing more menacing by the second. I was holding Mindi as we stood in the kitchen window watching the clouds. The rain started suddenly and poured like a river. Just as quickly the rain changed course and seemed to be pounding horizontally, still heavy like a river. The windows seemed to be heaving in and out. From the window, the view was solid white pounding rain. The visibility beyond the window was zero.

My dad was/is a hyper-vigilant person. It was very obvious that we needed to be in the cellar, but the short run to the cellar seemed nearly impossible in the driving raging rain. When I told Daddy that it looked like the windows were trying to burst, he told me we were going to make a run for the cellar. He grabbed Mindi out of my arms, he grabbed my by the arm and we ran into the pounding rain.

Safely in the cellar, we stood and strained to hear something beyond the rain. It was impossible.

When it became quiet again, Daddy opened the door and stepped out. The house was still standing, but the empty chicken house, which two days before or two days later would have had nearly 20,000 chickens in it, was flattened, and the barns too.

Massive oaks rested across the yard, snapped like toothpicks.

We took it in numbly, saying little, not knowing what to do next. Within the hour our usually quiet farm was crawling with visitors and viewers. Daddy was pleased as punch to show it all off, yet still kind of dazed by the whole thing. I must have been dazed too because I cannot recall what I did or thought after coming out of the cellar.

That night, maybe the next night, a Mennonite man phoned to ask Daddy if some of his people could come out and help clean up the next day. None of us really grasped what that meant. I imagined three or four men coming.

Early, very early the next day, black cars, trucks, and vans started pulling in. There were so many of them that we had to open pasture gates to give them room to park. We stood around like dummies in shock. Overrall-clad bearded men divided up between the chicken house and the barns. It was a scene to behold - almost as amazing as the destruction.

What we didn't expect were the ladies. Plain clothed rotund women, pregnant women, and skinny young women with hair buns and praying caps started piling into the house carrying pies, cakes, casseroles and everything you can imagine to feed the men at lunch time. Women and nursing babies were everywhere in the house.

Daddy, who the night before was in his glory with all the attention, carried himself less confidently that day. That evening as the last black car was leaving the yard - the mess 100% cleaned up, - Daddy revealed his uncomfortability at having been the "different" one. He declared, "I never wanted a beard and a pair of overalls so bad in my life."

Daddy didn't know how to show his gratitude. He thanked them profusely and gave their church a big donation.

Quite a Good Samaritan story, eh?

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Monday, March 12, 2007

From Mindi (I couldn't resist)

Costco/Sam's Club ALERT!!!

I don't how many of you shop at Sam's Club or Costco, but this may be useful to know. I became a victim of a clever scam while out Shopping. This happened to me and it could happen to you!!

Here's how the scam works:

Two seriously good-looking 23-year-old well-built guys come over to your car as you are packing your shopping in the trunk.

They both are shirtless and start wiping your windshield with a rag and Windex, with their highly-defined chest muscles and rock-hard abs exposed. It's impossible not to look.

When you thank them and offer them a tip, they say 'No' and instead ask you for a ride to another Sam's Club or Costco. You agree and they get In the back seat. On the way, they start talking dirty about what they want to do to you. Then one of them climbs over into the front seat and begins kissing your neck and begs you to pull over so he can make love to you!!

While this is going on the other guy steals your purse!!

I had my purse stolen last Tuesday, Wednesday, twice on Thursday, again on Saturday, and also yesterday and most likely Tomorrow. I have a few more old purses in my closet that I can dig out for next week!

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Friday, February 23, 2007

Photos from a Pro

Check out this site belonging to my niece. You'll be impressed -- especially if you know these people. http://mindibartell.typepad.com/photos/daily_dose/index.html

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Saturday, December 09, 2006

Ezra

I have a new great-nephew. He belongs to Mindi, and Mindi belongs to my brother Michael.

Baby's name is Ezra.

When I was in Arkansas, Mindi and Dustin were still undecided about the name Ezra. Michael mockingly derided it. "My grandson deserves the name of a major prophet, not a mere minor," he claimed.

He makes me smile.

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Friday, April 07, 2006

My Niece Mindi



Mindi and Julian December 2005

Mindi. Of all my nieces and nephews I have the most memories of Mindi and CJ. I was around them from the day they were born. They were so much a part of my own youth, that in many ways they were like much younger siblings. They were always around, so I have a number of memories and have enjoyed recollecting over the past few days.

I may be deluded, but I am of the opinion that Mindi is a lot like me; certainly the most like me of my nieces. Beautiful, cleaver, witty, fun-loving,... ok, enough about me, this is supposed to be about Mindi. :-)

Mindi was a very loved little girl and wonderfully secure with her place in the world. She would walk into our house on the farm with a look that said, "I'm here! You can all be happy now." I remember one time in particular that she wore that look into the house. She wore a royal blue corduroy dress with a white blouse underneath. She was all dressed up and couldn't wait to show us her new dress. She had such a beautiful face; very full cheeks, dark skin, thick nose, brown eyes that sparkled. Everything was perfect except her hair. She had 2 crowns in her hair which made for a challenge. The face was always beautiful, but the hair wasn't as cooperative. It went in every direction at once.

Ornery, she was very ornery. She was the sweetest thing on earth until she didn't get what she wanted, and then she screamed like the dickens and kicked too. She loved WalMart and pitched a walleyed fit when she didn't get a treat. To this day, I periodically imitate Mindi's toddler version of her beloved hangout. She called it "WullMerts," and sometimes I still do just because I thought it was so cute.

One phrase that has stuck with me through the years is her happy proclamation, "When my Momma gets some dollars, we're goin' to WullMerts." That memory leads me to another. With her white blouse tucked in her blue jeans, she struggled to get a treasure out of her pocket to show us. "I have dollars," she bragged.

She often spent time with Pop at the chicken house and in the fields. One particular time, conflicting schedules dictated that Mindi spend the whole day "on the farm" with Pop. She was exhausted at day's end. Not just exhausted, but extraordinarily exhausted. When we gathered for supper, Mindi was put in the bathtub. Famished, she came into the kitchen wrapped in a towel and her wet hair stuck to her head. Mimi was beside the stove peeling boiled eggs and Mindi asked for a bite. When Mimi said it was ok, Mindi responded with, "Put it in my mouth please." She was so exhausted that putting something in her own mouth seemed too hard to do herself. Supper that night had all the loving folks making sure Mindi's life was as unstressful as possible.

Like I said earlier, Mindi was adept at throwing fits when circumstances called for it. Once Pop took her to the grocery store with him and then refused to buy her a treat. Her fit was short-lived as she knew it was fruitless, but the bee in her bonnet was buzzing around furiously for hours. She was in a real snit. Cranky, grumpy, and impossible to please. Mimi tried a number of times to get her to tell what was bothering her, but Mindi kept quiet about the cause of her bitter mood. Mimi moved on with her chores and quit asking Mindi what was bothering her. Suddenly, unprovoked, Mindi burst out in frustration: "Pop didn't buy me any candy and that's IT!" By saying "that's it," she didn't mean, "that's what's bothering me," she meant, "he is no longer my grandpa, all ties are severed." She was seriously on the outs with Pop.

Now about how Mindi is like me. I have seen several expressions of hers that make me think, "oh my goodness, that looked like me." When she was a teenager, unfortunately I was in Canada, but I heard that she had a few "attitudes" like me. I gathered it wasn't a good thing. Mindi dabbles in the arts in the same ways I do. Our interests vary, but we each have a healthy appreciation for artsy type of things, and pursue the interests we have with a fair amount of passion.

I thoroughly enjoy Mindi. She's no longer that little girl I wrote about. She's a woman, a beautiful woman. Her hair finally cooperates and one would never know it was ever an issue. She's a mother, wife, photographer, writer, friend and a number of things I'm sure I don't know about. But I know she is delightful, a good communicator, funny, and smart. Mindi Rae, I love you as much as I did when you were a tot sitting on your mom's lap "steering" as she drove. You were precious then and you are just as precious now.

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